After talking with Jeff, Andrew and Billy, I decided to write home.

Dad,

I have spoken with my closest friends here in Vermont, and they have each given me positive and affirming thoughts to consider. With the goal of developing a relationship that will last the test of time, I have received some strong advice.

Jeff advised me to spend quality time on a regular scheduled basis with Samantha and to take two, good, solid vacations each year. Andrew advised me to develop some common interests with Samantha and to make doing those things a priority. As with Jeff, the idea of "cooling the jets" and allowing work to be a bi-product of my success rings volumes. Finally, Billy weighed in with the idea of having a strong financial backbone to champion a relationship toward success. 

Each of these ideas seems to be rooted in personal experiences that they have seen growing up. Each also seems to be an important tenant for their own successful future relationships.

I count myself lucky to have these friendships. We are all growing together in making strides toward a common profession, but it is the relationships themselves that I am coming to value most. Perhaps that even shows growth in myself as a person.

While you and Mom have had a successful relationship, I am excited to receive your letter as I want to hear from you in regards to the same question. "How do I  go about having a relationship that will stand the test of time?" I am excited to hear your thoughts.

I wish you and Mom well, and I want to additionally say that all is well here in Vermont.